(Real Tips That Actually Work â Without Punishment or Guilt)
You love your child.
You love their spirit, their fire, their creativity.
But some days?
You just want to lie down while they bounce off every single surface in your home.
We get it. At Emilyâs Playland, we donât believe in trying to âfixâ active kids. We believe in helping them channel that endless energy with tools, space, and strategies that actually work.
Here are some real tips (backed by child development science and tested by real humans) for when your kid just. wonât. stop. moving.
đ§ First, Understand the Why
Most kids move constantly because their brains are doing their job:
⢠Learning to regulate emotions
⢠Releasing stress
⢠Exploring the world
⢠Building coordination and body awareness
Telling them to stop moving is like asking them to stop breathing. But that doesnât mean you have to live in chaos.
â Tip #1: Make a Movement Plan (Before the Chaos Starts)
Kids need at least 3â5 bursts of movement a day. If you wait until theyâre bouncing off the walls, itâs too late:
Try:
⢠A morning hopscotch mat challenge
⢠Midday jumping or balancing game
⢠After-school dance party
⢠Pre-dinner mini obstacle course
Think: short, structured, and fun.
𧸠Tip #2: Offer Movement Toys That Donât Wreck the House
Some kids just need to jump, twist, roll, or crawl. But you can guide that with safe outlets:
⢠Foam stepping stones
⢠Ribbon streamers
⢠Balance boards
⢠Crash pillows
⢠Climb-friendly cushions
⢠Yoga dice or movement spinners
All designed for small space, big energy.
đ Tip #3: Use Books That Move Too
Reading can be movement time too!
At Emilyâs Playland:
⢠âThe Ten Pirate Clues to Treasure Bayâ has clues that get kids moving
⢠âMilo the Horseâ can inspire galloping or balancing games
⢠Even âTheodora the Slothâ teaches kids to move slowly (great for calming!)
Try reading a few pages, doing a movement related to the story, then returning to quiet.
đ§ Tip #4: Calm Doesnât Mean Sitting Still
Sometimes, moving gently is the calmest thing a kid can do.
Try:
⢠Waving a ribbon to music
⢠Rocking in a mini chair
⢠Swaying with a weighted toy
⢠Walking slowly along a tape line
Slow movement builds self-regulationâway more effective than just saying âstop.â
đĄ Bonus Tip: Use Their Energy as a Signal
If your child is extra wired:
⢠Are they bored? (New toy rotation?)
⢠Are they hungry? (Offer a quick protein snack?)
⢠Are they tired? (Yes, wild energy can be exhaustion!)
⢠Are they overstimulated? (Create a low-light, low-noise zone)
đ Final Thought
You donât need to control your childâs energy. You need to equip it.
At Emilyâs Playland, we create toys and books that donât just accept busy kidsâwe celebrate them.
Because the ones who just donât stop?
Theyâre the ones going places.
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